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When you date or have sex over 40, you face many stereotypes from partners about longevity in the bedroom and physical dexterity. It doesn’t exist because I know it doesn’t exist in me. Desiring things like perfection has kept me a single waystation. A key component of the journey is staying humble with an open mind. I adore those same qualities in men, and also other qualities like thoughtfulness, sincerity, honesty, and communication. Those two major opportunities are important, and I have found the direct approach and being present are also appreciated. The relationship taught me what not to do-especially in moments involving communication and finances. I had a relationship that took up the bulk of my 30s. Things like playing phone tag or standing up dates are completely off the table.
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The delay in marriage quality is a factor in why many of us are getting married so much later in life-and it is beautiful to see.ĭating at this stage of life caused me to cut out all the caterwauling and mediocre game-playing. Also, I still haven’t given up on the idea of marriage and a family. When desiring love, I have been craving someone who is emotionally intelligent, communicative, financially literate, and sexually explosive.
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The space of my 40s romantically has been a laugh-riot on most days and a stressful hell on others. However, my proverbial hindsight started to meet my foresight more quickly, which has saved me much heartbreak. I have become more self-aware, gained a little weight, fixed my credit, and found the importance of therapy, but all those things don’t happen at the same pace. My 40s is where I have reaped the benefits, and I now have peace of mind. After the mistakes of my 20s, I used my 30s to reconcile many mistakes and heartaches.